Brooding over daily challenges

I am writing here after long back to just verbalize what I am brooding over sometime now. Just entered in a real corporate world I am quite bewildered of people's strange behavior. People are so naive in this industry. It's not that I am complaining about somebody but I am just confused how to approach them and communicate with them. I have a friend in my team who is so modern and well sophisticated financially. I thought that she can be my closed one. I have gradually been understanding that I am seeming like an alien to them as though I am from a hamlet and have no dressing sense and all that. She would always be denouncing and belittling me in the sense of I am unfit for city life. I am so worried of being belittled by her and some other people also. But I am planning to do something, which will turn the world's attention. Trying to be friendly with different kind of people even though they are not of my kind. I just wanna continue this in my next blog post also............

Love

If one wants to fall in love, he or she must be ready to believe in that relationship. Otherwise life of two persons will be ruined because of lack of trust. Trust and belief are the foremost things in relationship. Evolution has been changing from time to time. But civilization is not matching up the evolution in terms of trust. When we step into a new era, we will have to face some drawbacks but still we are responsible to make it flawless. The drawbacks are that people will have contact with numerous people which does mean that they are supposed to have so. It never means that they will have wrong affair with more than one. I hardly agree with the concept, Love at First Sight. We can love a person only then we imbibed the character of the person. When it does not happen, the relationship ends in vain. A comfortable life will come only when we understand people and ready to accept them with their small small flaws. That makes life beautiful. We can never design a person to match up our expectations. But their are lots of opportunities to enjoy our life by accepting a person with her/his little blemishes. LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR LOVED ONE WITHOUT JUDGING HIM/HER. LIFE WILL BE AWESOME.

My Sweet Home

I love my home like anything in this world . Even though I am penniless as of now, I feel as though I am the queen of this Universe . I would be very grateful to the Almighty  if this bliss retains in my heart and mind even if I earn Crores together. I have been enjoying my best time ever in my life these two weeks . I am gonna rock this world if this support lasts forever .

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Mother Tongue

Many of us do not know the significance and worth of the mother tongue.  I am not talking here about Thamizh but that language may be Hindi or Urdu or Bengali or Chinese or Japanese.  If you want to learn any other language, the preferred method is via our mother tongue.  Only then you can give a perfect feel when you start talking that new language.  Saying “I don’t know Thamizh properly and I’ll do spelling mistakes while writing Thamizh” has become a fashion nowadays.  And parents are satisfied if their kids are proficient only in English.   Those people must understand one thing. That is English is not a sign of knowledge and it’s only a language.
We miss all the treasures in our own language like epical and ethical stories, histories, medicinal inventions, verses and traditional music etc.  Only because we neglect our mother tongue there is no doubt we will become the secondary citizens of our own country in coming years.  Do we need that to happen? I never say that we should not be well versed in other languages.  At the same time let’s not forget our mother tongue. Can we think in English? Can we feel in English? Can we imagine in English? Can we lament in English? No No No…..  Let’s learn to respect our language and also learn so many languages through the treasury and classical mother tongue. Let’s try to be acquainted with all our literary history and the precious value of our own custom.

What is Beauty???

Beauty does not mean that we should have a gorgeous appearance but the pleasant feel in others’ thought when we come in their mind. Beauty and smartness are all about the clemency and magnanimity in women, decorum and grandeur in men. The good character and nature of a person will make the people delighted and make them to feel as if the person has a lovely appearance. No make-up kit can bestow the glittering exquisiteness as much as a kind heart gives.

A wonderful saying, “FACE IS THE INDEX MIND” implies my point strongly since several years. People think that white and pink skin is the sign of beauty and gorgeousness but they can also agree their mother is the one most beautiful woman in the world and the first hero of them is their father. No one can deny this avowal. It’s not that we admire them just because they have extraordinary features of appearance [they might have that] but the selfless heart and caring nature we get from them. I don’t say that we should not care about our external appearance. A neat look is essential in our daily life to get a confidence in this competing world. But let’s not forget the humanity and humility which would last forever, even after our bereavement.

Water Guzzler

Prosopis Juliflora (Velikaathaan Chedi) is a water guzzler which is ubiquitous across India sowed by the British when they left us. This plant consumes 1000 litres of water to grow to weigh a kilogram, while other plants consume less than 50 litres of water to grow to weigh a kilogram. The morphological character of this thorny plant is the root of the plant will grow double the time of its trunk.  Animals will not chomp this plant. Even birds will not prefer this tree for nesting. The only use of this useless tree [Prosopis Juliflora] is being utilized as a fuel. 

It’s a strong light demander plant and frost hardy species fire tender.   This is a semi ever green forest tree and it will be greenish in every season. The thorns of this plant are poisonous and infectious, and can cause gangrene when it pricks our skin. Because of the acidic and poisonous nature of this green fiend it will never allow other plants to grow around the circumference.  Since it has a high calorific value, it is used for charcoal production and to make agricultural instruments. 

Prosopis Juliflora will not only suck the ground water but also the surface moisture which will increase the surface heat. This dangerous plant must be eradicated. Only then our country will become greenish garden. Actor Jayam Ravi would have addressed this Prosopis Juliflora as SEEMAI KARUVALA MULL in the movie Peranmai. Let us eradicate this species and diminish the level of global warming.

பெண்ணுக்கு ராஜ்ஜியம்...

என் தகப்பனார் திரு. சிலேடைக்கவி. மதிவாணன் எழுதிய கவிதை.....

பூக்களைச் சுற்றி முள்ளிருப்பது

அவற்றைக் காப்பதற்கல்ல;

காற்றில் ஆடும்போது

காயப்படுத்தவே!

நாம் பெண்ணிடம் எதிர்பார்ப்பது தலைமையை அல்ல;

தாய்மையையே!

குணத்தில் அவள் பிள்ளைப் பூச்சியாய்,

நடைமுறையில் பிள்ளைத்தாய்ச்சியாய்,

அடுப்பில் நெருப்பு;

குடத்தில் நீர்

பார்வையில் நிலம்

மூச்சுச் சிக்கனத்தில் காற்று-

சமையலறைக் கூரையில் வானம்!

பெண்ணின் பஞ்ச பூதங்கள் இவையே!

எண்ணுக்குள் பூஜ்யம்

பெண்ணுக்கு ராஜ்ஜியம்...

Failure

None wishes to step into this stage that’s failure. One’s great effort has made this phase that’s failure. The one who vacillates to accept his failure, he is unfit to retain his victory with himself.

Victory, triumph and success are just words for the coward who is shilly-shally to face failure.

Do you know the eminence of FAILURE? Failure is a boon and Godsend. Failure is the only thing makes us to be more attentive in a particular matter with 100% indulgence. 

And failure is the only thing which helps us to make the thing lucid and eloquent what we have taken.

The person who always defeats others can never abide his/her failure whereas; the person who is used to failure will never relish his/her victory unnecessarily.

FAIL..... Let’s Fail and get succeeded through meaningful failures.

Children of God

If we say that that the orphans are children of God, then God also deserves family planning”, said actor Kamalhasan. Last weekend, I had been to a charity home along with some of our colleagues. It was really an amazing experience spent my Sunday with kids cleverer than us.

Affable and amiable angels..... What made their parents to abandon these flowers? They long for love and care. And we have the responsibility to make them feel that they have the same, what they are longing for.

I wondered when those little flowers held their hands with ours and narrating stories, singing songs and imitating cine heroes by dancing and saying punch dialogues. They deserve a blissful life with an atmosphere of family.

We people have fantastic family and friends to support us at all ends. But..... think of them..... I just want to emphasize that we should create the fantabulous future to them. I mean, we must adopt at least one kid from a charity home or a poor family where he/she cannot be given basic needs for his/her survival. I swear that I would adopt two kids and I will have one of my own and I will be an unbiased parent to all the three.

Kindness, mercy, love, care, clemency and affection are the minerals and vitamins that we should possess on this “polluted” earth to make ourselves and others healthy.

  

Wind Storm in Our Highways

Really!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh my goodness.......... "No trees, No wind", but I saw a wind storm today. I use to walk to my office daily and I love to walk. But I am afraid if i am gonna develop any lung disease because of the smoke being expelled from the vehicles and every bus and lorry forms storm while its crossing across. Despite I use to mask my face using hanky, I find walking along the road is quite chaotic. What would be the solution for this? Me alone can make and drastic change to defend myself from this air pollution and noise pollution as well!!!!!!! I don't want to protect only myself but also my heir (successor)..... I am puzzled out of it............

Feminism

பெண்மையின் உன்னதம் புற அழகில் இல்லை என்று பெண்கள் உணரும் தருணம்.